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Mbere yo kubaka urugo, banza utekereze neza ku muntu muzabana ubuzima bwose
Uwajeneza Donatha
May 15, 2026 - 10:43
Kubaka urugo ni umwe mu myanzuro ikomeye umuntu afata mu buzima bwe. Ni icyemezo kidakwiye gufatwa gishingiye ku marangamutima y’igihe gito cyangwa ku gitutu cy'ababyeyi abaturanyi ndetse n’inshuti, ahubwo gisaba gutekereza kure no kureba niba uwo muntu mufitanye icyerekezo kimwe cy’ubuzima.
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Hari abantu benshi bishora mu rushako bakiri mu byishimo by’urukundo gusa, ariko nyuma y’igihe gito ugasanga batangiye kubana nabi, kutizerana cyangwa guhora mu makimbirane. Akenshi ibi biterwa no kuba barafashe umwanzuro bihuse batabanje kwiga neza imico, imyitwarire n’indangagaciro z’uwo bagiye kubana.
Abahanga mu mibereho y’imiryango bavuga ko mbere yo kubaka urugo, umuntu aba akwiye kwiha igihe gihagije cyo kumenya uwo bakundana. Si ukureba ubwiza bwo hanze gusa cyangwa amafaranga umuntu afite, ahubwo ni ukureba niba afite umutima w’urukundo, kubahana, kwihangana no kuba umuntu ushobora gukemura ibibazo mu mahoro.
Hari ingo nyinshi zisenyuka kubera ko bamwe baba barinjiye mu rushako batabanje kuganira ku bintu by’ingenzi bigize ubuzima bw’umuryango. Urugero nk’imikoreshereze y’amafaranga, uburyo bwo kurera abana, imyizerere, inshingano z’umugabo n’umugore ndetse n’uburyo bwo gukemura amakimbirane. Iyo ibi bitavuzweho mbere, nyuma bishobora kuvamo kutumvikana gukomeye.
Hari kandi abashaka kubera igitutu cy’imyaka cyangwa gushimisha imiryango yabo, nyamara bo ubwabo badafite amahoro yo kwemera uwo muntu. Ibyo rero bishobora gutuma umuntu yinjira mu rugo afite gushidikanya, bikarangira yicuza icyemezo yafashe.
Kubaka urugo rwiza ntibishingira gusa ku rukundo rw’amagambo, ahubwo bishingira ku cyizere, kubahana no kugira intego imwe y’ubuzima. Umuntu ushaka uwo bazabana aba akwiye kwibaza niba uwo muntu bashobora kuzafashanya mu bihe byiza n’ibibi, kuko ubuzima bw’urugo budahora bworoshye.
Abasesenguzi b’imibanire bavuga ko ari byiza ko umuntu afata igihe cyo gusenga, kugisha inama abantu bizewe no kureba kure mbere yo gufata umwanzuro wo kurushinga. Kwirinda kwihuta bishobora gutuma umuntu yubaka urugo rukomeye kandi rurambye.
Nubwo nta muryango ubura ibibazo, guhitamo neza uwo muzabana bishobora kugabanya amakimbirane no gutuma urugo rwubakwa ku nkingi zikomeye. Ni yo mpamvu abantu bakwiye kumenya ko urushako atari umukino cyangwa irushanwa, ahubwo ari urugendo rw’ubuzima rusaba ubushishozi n’umutima uteguye neza.
by Diane Batsinda.
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